Waident recently sponsored Alive’s S.T.E.M. Exploration Day, helping make a day of discovery and learning possible for teens. Experiences like these give young people space to ask questions, explore their interests, and imagine new possibilities for their futures. We’re thankful to have partners who help us bring those opportunities to life.

Their generosity also shines through Givemas, an annual celebration that turns Waident’s Naperville office into a festive pop-up shop. Local nonprofits, including Alive, are invited to browse and select gifts and supplies completely free of charge. It’s a thoughtful way to share resources while bringing people together during the holiday season.

There’s something special about a team that puts this much imagination into giving. Through both event sponsorship and Givemas, Waident offers practical support with a personal touch, creating connections with the organizations working in their community.

To everyone at Waident, thank you for welcoming Alive into your celebrations and investing in opportunities for our teens. We’re grateful to be among the local organizations supported by your generosity!

Get to know this community-minded team: Visit Waident Technology Solutions

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For many teens, the difference between spending the afternoon alone and finding a safe place to belong comes down to one simple thing: a ride.

At Alive, we believe every teen deserves access to a safe, welcoming environment where they can discover their passions, build friendships, and develop the confidence to thrive. But we've learned that even when programs are completely free, getting there can be one of the biggest obstacles for families.

Thanks to the generous support of the Dunham Foundation, Alive Aurora launched Driven to Thrive, a transportation initiative that provides safe, reliable bus service from school directly to the Center. Through our partnership with West Aurora School District 129, teens at Washington, Jefferson, and Black Hawk Academy have a reliable way to reach Alive’s free after-school programs.

And the wheels are turning!

Since launching, Driven to Thrive has provided 243 bus rides, connecting teens to free, Teen-Led, Teen-Driven after-school programming that offers so much more than a place to spend the afternoon. Once they arrive, teens are welcomed into a community of caring adults and supportive peers. They can receive free tutoring, explore STEM and creative arts, participate in leadership opportunities, develop healthy coping skills, or simply enjoy being themselves in a space where they feel accepted and valued.

For working parents and families facing transportation challenges, Driven to Thrive provides something equally meaningful: peace of mind. By creating a reliable connection between school and Alive, the initiative helps ease transportation burdens while opening the door to opportunities that might otherwise be out of reach.

Nourishing Teens Beyond the School Day

The Dunham Foundation's generosity is also helping Alive Aurora address another important barrier to youth well-being: food insecurity.

With the Foundation's support, Alive established a Friday Food Pantry, providing teens with healthy, shelf-stable snacks to take home for the weekend. Teens are encouraged to take what they need, without judgment or stigma.

It's a simple but powerful way to extend Alive's care beyond the walls of the Center, helping young people access nutritious food even when our doors are closed.

Building Connections That Last

As Driven to Thrive continues to grow, we're learning valuable lessons about what it takes to make after-school programming truly accessible. Strong partnerships with local schools, consistent communication with families, and flexibility in transportation schedules are all essential to meeting teens where they are.

But perhaps the most important lesson is this: Access creates opportunity.

Each of those 243 rides represents a chance for a teen to discover a new interest, find a trusted adult, make a friend, or experience the simple but powerful feeling of belonging.

And that impact extends far beyond the ride to Alive.

We are deeply grateful to the Dunham Foundation for recognizing that investing in youth means addressing the barriers that stand between them and the opportunities they deserve. We also thank West Aurora School District 129 and our partner schools for helping make these connections possible.

Because Driven to Thrive is about more than getting teens from school to Alive. It's about helping them get where they want to go in life.

Every ride is a connection. Every connection is an opportunity. And every opportunity is another chance to COME ALIVE.

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Together with KidsMatter, Inside Out Club, and Go Brewing, we welcomed the community to a two-day experience at Central Park focused on building meaningful human connections. For us, it was an exciting extension of the work we do every day: helping young people discover what makes them come alive and find a place where they belong.

The festival gave participants different ways to get to know one another, from games and shared meals to opportunities to give back. Teen leaders helped bring the experience to life, taking an active role in creating an event for their peers. Each activity offered a reason to start a conversation, try something unfamiliar, or spend time with someone new.

What made the weekend meaningful to our team was the willingness people brought to it. Connecting with someone you’ve just met can feel uncomfortable. Sharing something personal takes trust. Throughout the festival, there was room for that vulnerability alongside laughter and celebration.

Amanda McMillen, Executive Director of the Alive Center, reflected on what she saw:

“The Possibility Festival brought a group of strangers together with openness and vulnerability, and also fun and celebration, which is exactly what we hoped to accomplish in two short days. It was powerful to see the Naperville community show up for one another, and we are excited to carry this momentum forward to create more opportunities like this throughout our community.”

That sense of possibility is something we want young people to carry with them. A new connection can begin with a small step: joining an activity, asking a question, or giving someone your full attention. Creating welcoming spaces makes those steps a little easier.

We’re grateful to our co-hosts, teen leaders, volunteers, and everyone who took a chance on this first festival. Your participation helped turn an idea into a shared experience that we’re proud to have been part of.

At Alive, we’ll continue making room for those connections, and for the young people who are still looking for their place to begin.

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By Alive Center | Inside the Teen Mind Podcast

What’s happening inside the teen mind, and how can we better support the young people in our lives?

Season 1 of Inside the Teen Mind explored that question through conversations about growing up, mental health, identity, and connection. Co-hosts Amanda McMillen, LCSW, Executive Director of Alive Center, and Dr. Lisa Konick helped parents, educators, and caregivers better understand the experiences behind teen behavior.

As the hosts reflect in their season recap video, here’s a look at the conversations you can catch up on before Season 2.

Meet the Hosts

Amanda McMillen, LCSW, brings more than two decades of experience serving children, youth, and families. At Alive Center, she leads an organization where teens are encouraged to build relationships, explore their interests, and develop leadership skills.

Dr. Lisa Konick is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and Founder of Konick & Associates, a group behavioral health practice offering research-based therapy and assessment services for individuals and families.

Together, they bring clinical expertise and a shared commitment to supporting teens to every conversation.

What Season 1 Explored

From everyday challenges to conversations that can feel difficult to start, the season covered:

The stages of adolescence: Understanding the changes from early adolescence through young adulthood.

Stress and mental health: Exploring burnout, perfectionism, anxiety, depression, and pressures that may go unnoticed.

Identity and belonging: Supporting LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent teens as they navigate their development and relationships.

Social media: Looking beyond screen time to how online experiences affect confidence, connection, and emotional well-being.

Executive functioning: Understanding challenges with organization, time management, getting started, and following through.

Whether you’re navigating homework struggles, worried about social media, or hoping to understand your teen more deeply, there’s a conversation to start with.

Continuing the Conversation at Alive

At Alive Center, our teen-led, teen-driven programs give young people space to connect, discover interests, and feel accepted for who they are. Inside the Teen Mind extends that work to the adults who care about them, offering a place to learn and reflect on how we support teens.

Watch the Recap and Get Ready for Season 2

Watch Amanda McMillen and Dr. Lisa Konick look back on Season 1 below!

Again, thank you to everyone who listened or shared an episode with someone in their life. Stay tuned for the launch of Season 2!

Listen to Season 1

Missed an episode? Click here. Choose a topic that speaks to you, revisit a favorite conversation, or share the podcast with someone who cares about teens.

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Through its Community Investment Fund, Endeavor Health helps Alive Center provide free, preventive mental health services for youth in grades 5–12 at our Naperville and Hanover Park Drop-In centers. This investment helps teens access welcoming spaces where they can build meaningful connections and feel supported.

Endeavor Health is also recognized on our Legacy Wall, honoring its lasting contribution to Alive Center. Its continued investment helps sustain the work happening in our centers every day and reflects a shared belief in the importance of supporting youth before challenges become crises.

We’re deeply grateful to Endeavor Health for helping build the foundation for this work and continuing to invest in its future. Thank you for believing in our mission and helping local teens come alive!

Learn more about Endeavor Health at endeavorhealth.org.

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Annie has supported Alive for several years, generously sharing her time, talent, and resources with our community. Whether serving as a vendor at STEM Day, sponsoring events like Friendsgiving, where Alive provides Thanksgiving meals to local families, or volunteering her time to help create fun and meaningful experiences for our community, Annie has been there in every way.

What makes Annie’s support so special is her consistency. She doesn’t simply support one event or one initiative. She continues to show up wherever she is needed, always bringing the same warmth, enthusiasm, and genuine care for the people we serve.

We’re incredibly grateful for Annie and the lasting impact she has made throughout the Alive community. Thank you, Annie, for believing in our mission and continuing to stand beside our teens and families!

We’re proud to shine a well-deserved spotlight on Annie and encourage our community to support the people who so generously support Alive. To connect with Annie and the Kinsley Team for an insurance quote:

Call: 630-820-5400
Email: annie@thekinsleyteam.com
Learn more: Visit Annie Kinsley’s State Farm website

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The Same Screen Time Can Affect Teens Differently

• The type of content a teen is viewing
• How frequently they compare themselves to others
• Whether they are actively connecting or passively scrolling
• The role group chats and online feedback play in their friendships
• Whether social media is being used for creativity, belonging, distraction, or emotional escape
• How they feel about themselves before and after going online

The Four Social Media Profiles

The Social Comparator

The Avoidant Scroller

The Identity Explorer

The Socially Dependent Connector

What Parents and Caregivers Will Learn

• What the four social media profiles may reveal about a teen’s emotional well-being
• Why the same amount of screen time can lead to very different outcomes
• How to recognize when scrolling is helping a teen connect versus leaving them anxious, isolated, or feeling “not enough”
• Why group chats, likes, views, and delayed responses can carry so much emotional weight
• How parents can approach conversations with curiosity instead of immediately creating another conflict over phones
• Practical ways to help teens notice how online experiences affect their mood, confidence, and relationships

Moving From Control to Conversation

• “How do you usually feel after you’ve been scrolling?”
• “Does social media make you feel more connected lately, or more stressed?”
• “Are there certain accounts or group chats that leave you feeling worse?”
• “What parts of being online feel fun or supportive to you?”
• “Is there anything happening online that feels difficult to manage?”

Helping Teens Build Connection Beyond the Screen

Listen to Episode 8

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Too often, adults underestimate what teens are capable of.

We talk about young people as “the future,” while overlooking the incredible leadership, creativity, compassion, and innovation they are already bringing into the world right now. At Alive, we believe teens are not waiting to become leaders someday, they are leaders today.

That belief is at the core of everything we do.

Alive’s Teen-Led, Teen-Driven model was built on a simple but powerful idea: when teens are trusted, supported, and given meaningful opportunities to lead, they rise to the occasion in extraordinary ways.

And they do.

Every day, Alive teens step into leadership roles that challenge them to think critically, collaborate, solve problems, support their peers, and create experiences that directly impact their communities. From leading Teen Advisory Boards and planning programs to mentoring younger teens, organizing service projects, and speaking at community events, Alive teens are actively shaping the culture around them.

What makes this leadership model so impactful is that it is authentic. Teens are not simply following directions created by adults. They are helping design programs, identify community needs, and bring their own ideas to life with guidance and support from mentors who believe in them.

This process builds far more than leadership skills.

It builds confidence.
It builds resilience.
It builds communication, empathy, and problem-solving.
It teaches teens that their ideas have value and that their voices deserve to be heard.

For many young people, this may be the first time they have ever felt truly empowered.

At Alive, we have seen shy teens become confident speakers. We have watched young people who once struggled to connect with peers become mentors and role models. We have seen teens discover passions for service, advocacy, technology, art, leadership, and community-building simply because someone gave them the opportunity to try.

And perhaps most importantly, we have seen teens begin to believe in themselves.

This generation of young people has so much to offer the world. They are thoughtful, creative, socially aware, compassionate, and deeply motivated to make a difference. They do not need adults to have all the answers for them. They need adults who will listen to them, invest in them, and create spaces where they can safely grow into their potential.

That is what Alive strives to be.

When teens take the lead, incredible things happen. Programs become more relevant. Communities become more connected. Young people feel ownership over the spaces they help create. And leadership becomes something they experience firsthand rather than simply something they hear about in theory.

At Alive, we are proud to create opportunities where teens are not just participants, but decision-makers, creators, innovators, and leaders.

Because when young people are empowered to lead, they don’t just change their own lives.

They change communities.

They inspire others.

And they remind all of us what is possible when we believe in the next generation.

Funding for the Teen Tech Tutors Program was provided by AT&T. 

#TheAliveWay #MarchingForward #TeensTaketheLead #EveryTeenDeservesAlive

Video by Sidekick Media 

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• Autism spectrum differences / ASD 
• ADHD 
• Dyslexia and other learning differences 
• Sensory processing differences Tourette’s syndrome 
• Giftedness paired with executive-function challenges 
• Anxiety-related processing differences 

• “They’re so bright, but they can’t finish tasks.” 
• “They can hyperfocus on preferred activities but avoid responsibilities.” 
• “They’re not lazy… but they seem stuck.” 

• Inconsistent attention 
• Difficulty starting or completing tasks 
• Emotional intensity or dysregulation 
• Becoming overwhelmed during transitions 
• Rigid routines or strong preferences 
• Sensory sensitivities 
• Difficulty reading social cues 
• Frustration with everyday tasks Interest-driven motivation 
• Deep focus on preferred topics 

• Frequent meltdowns or tantrums 
• Sensory overload 
• Difficulty with transitions 

• Peer misunderstandings 
• Difficulty following multi-step directions 
• Homework frustration and meltdowns 

• Executive-function breakdowns 
• Increased social comparison 
• Emotional and cognitive burnout after school 

• Overwhelm from academic demands 
• Avoidance or shutdown behaviors 
• Difficulty balancing independence and expectations 

• Understanding social nuance or group dynamics 
• Perspective taking 
• Reading facial expressions, tone, or body language 
• Conversations that become focused on preferred interests 
• Impulsivity or inattentiveness that may be misinterpreted by peers as disinterest 
• Masking or camouflaging behaviors to fit in, which can be emotionally exhausting 

• Explicit teaching of social expectations 
• Coaching before social events 
• Practicing conversation and conflict-resolution skills 
• Opportunities to connect around shared interests 

• Rapid shifts from calm to overwhelmed 
• Increased anxiety during transitions or unclear expectations 
• Shutdowns, withdrawal, or emotional outbursts 
• Difficulty labeling or communicating emotions 

• Emotional regulation and recognizing early signs of distress 
• Distress tolerance and grounding strategies 
• Coping with transitions and unexpected changes 
• Social skills training 
• Executive-function skill development 
• Understanding how their brain processes experiences, with a focus on neurological strengths and differences 

• Using clear, direct, and concrete communication 
• Providing advanced notice of transitions or changes 
• Allow time for transitions 
• Breaking tasks into smaller, structured steps 
• Offering choices to increase autonomy 
• Validating emotions, even when their reactions seems disproportionate to the situation 
• Remaining calm and predictable during emotional moments 

• Procrastination 
• Disorganization 
• Difficulty planning or prioritizing 
• Trouble initiating tasks 
• Difficulty with time management 
• Challenges with sustained attention 

• Emphasize strengths and interests 
• Praise effort rather than perfection 
• Encourage independence when appropriate 
• Support passion-based activities 

• “What part feels hardest?” 
• “Let’s start this together.” 
• “Would a checklist or reminder help?” 
• “Would now or later work better?” 
• “How can I support you?” 

• 504 Plans 
• IEP evaluations 
• Occupational or speech therapy services 
• Executive-function coaching 

• Individual therapy 
• Family therapy 
• Parent coaching 
• Neuropsychological evaluations 
• Group therapy or social skills groups 

• Mentoring programs 
• Teen centers and peer programs 
• Clubs, camps, and interest-based activities 

Listen to Episode 4 of Inside the Teen Mind for a deeper conversation on supporting neurodivergent teens. 

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Recognizing This Year’s Award Recipients

Voices That Brought Alive’s Impact to Life

With Gratitude

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